@jamie800, do you just not realize how offensive that way of thinking is to your other valued ADULT guests? You are basically putting this 2 year old (or whatever) over your other relatives and good friends. Wouldn't you want memories of every single person who attended your wedding? I know that I do! But that doesn't mean that we need to come up with 150 different roles for every single person.What makes the children more valuable memories than the other guests?
I understand where she is coming from. I have seven younger siblings, 6 of which are under the age of 10. I would never have one abd not have them all. I love them equally abd would hate to leave anyone out. We are going to have the older girls be junior bridesmaids and the older boys jr groomsmen. My younger brother will be RB and my youngest sister will be a FG along with my neice.