We want a dog SO BAD; have for ages now. This summer finally feels like the right time, but I want to make sure we're being responsible about it.
We plan to adopt a small dog from a local rescue organization. I'm not sure if we should get a puppy or an adult dog. I'm torn because PUPPIES but adult dogs are less likely to get adopted, and hopefully would be less hyper.
Other considerations: I'll be home a lot this summer studying, so I'll have time to train and be with the dog. We'll get pet insurance, but don't have oodles of other cash if something really catastrophic happens beyond the plan limits. In November we'll both be working full time, so money will be easier but we'll be out of the house a lot. I think we'd get a dog walker at that time.
Mostly I'm trying to decide whether to get the dog now (more time, less money) or later (more money, less time).
Thoughts:
--What unexpected expenses surprised you when you first got your dog?
--What books/resources were most helpful when training?
--Puppy vs. adult dog thoughts?
--Breed recommendations for an apartment with cats?
"I'm not a rude bitch. I'm ten rude bitches in a large coat."
Re: Dog people-- help us decide when to get a dog!
As far as she I would lean towards adult. Every shelter dog I have gotten was 2 and that was the perfect age; they were overlooked for not being a puppy, but still young enough that you have plenty of years ahead.
The only unexpected expenses I had had with pets were get bills. I had my current dog 2 years before he got some weird stomach bug that ended in a 200 vet bill. Our cat we only had 2 weeks and she got attacked by a neighbor dog and broke her leg.
As far as cats I don't know of specific breeds but my dog is a jack russel/beagle mix and has always loved kitties. I would consider bringing your cat if possible to introduce them.
This is a tough one. First for breed, I would go online see if you can find a few quizzes that may direct you to what kind of dog your lifestyle is suited for.
When it comes to puppy vs adult there are a lot of pros and cons for each.
Puppy pros: the bonding factor, the cuteness factor, the malleability to your lifestyle
Puppy cons: the training can be every extensive, possibility of damaged carpets, getting up in the middle of the night the first month to take out.
Adult pros: possibly less hyper, possibly trained/potty trained
Adult cons. you really never know their background, getting an adult dog can come with a whole slew of emotional or medical issues.
Just really think on it. Dog are a lot of responsibility and some people might disagree, but in my opinion, its like having kids.
The bigger dog has attached himself to our little dog (who we've had longer) and gets visibly upset when he can't find our littler dog. We brought the little dog with us when we got the bigger one to make sure they got along. It might be a good idea to do this with your cats. Both of our dogs get very curious about cats but they've never tried to co-habitate with them as far as we know.
Dogs, in my limited experience, seem to need time a lot more than money. Luckily, my husband works full time so we can do both. He makes the money, I spend the time with them. It could be a shock to the bank account if the shots aren't up to date but most shelters keep shots current and should have records to give you. Our second dog came to us with a huge tick in his ear which turned into a situation warranting 3 vet visits in the first couple weeks we had him. (Tick search-and-destroy visit with prescribed antibiotics, dog sick from antibiotics, check up/everything finally leveled out enough to do his shots visit).
Make sure you've got everything the dog will need or money to buy it. Hopefully someone with cats and dogs can give you breed recommendations. All I can say is that my miniature schnauzer and pit bull/collie mix have never had troubles with cats but they've also not been exposed to them for long periods of time.
I would suggest going with an adult dog. One nice thing about them is you can have a better idea of what you are getting. Often they can tell you if that dog is good with children, or other pets, or house trained, or whatever. You can spend time with it there and see how friendly it is, if it likes to play, if it gets along quickly with strangers, etc. The trouble with puppies is they are all so cute and friendly, but you don't know how it's temperament will turn out. Research into different breeds can help. Though I do want to point out mixed breed dogs on average have far less medical issues than most purebreds
Good luck!
Get a dog! Seriously they are the best source of endless love out there! I am partial to my beagle, but hey, they are not for everyone.
Having owned puppies and older dogs, I have to say that you get over that puppy phase REAL quick! I got my Bailey Girl when she was about 8 months, so she still had plenty of puppy in her. Rescues tend to "sell out" of puppies a lot quicker because nobody wants an older dog. I think older dogs are SO much better.
I think it is important to do a lot of bonding together when you first get your dog as this builds trust and helps to establish you as the "leader of the pack". So I say, get one now!
As far as expenses go, Bailey has a lot of little issues, so we are at the vet all the time. Most vets offer payment plans for the unexpected, so if something comes up you should be ok. Hope this helps! Post pictures!!!
Definitely prioritize having more time > having more money (as long as you have ENOUGH money to get started). Make sure you think about any time you'll want to just pick up and go somewhere, or stay out late...can't do that easily with a dog.
I adopted Willy when he was about 6 years old. He's a Chinese Crested hairless from the Naked K-9 rescue organization. He was VERY nervous around strangers for about the first year - very common among rescues, especially older ones - but warmed right up to me from the minute we met. He has a bit of a Napoleon complex so sometimes he tries to pick fights with bigger dogs. But he's an absolute sweetheart and I love him to bits! It's an awesome breed - no shedding, and I get to buy him clothes!
If this is horrifying to you, don't get a pug. My sister's has to have his anal gland expressed every now and then. Yes, it is as disgusting as it sounds.