My fiance's parents, my parents, and the two of us are sharing the costs of our wedding. After looking FOREVER, my fiance and I picked out invitations that we're both really excited about. His parents are paying for the invites, so we worked with them to determine the wording. There is limited space, so we did not include the whole rigmarole with my parents' names and his parents' names.
I sent my mom the proofs so that she could see what we were planning on, and she called me over to her house extremely upset and cried for an hour that the wedding guests are going to think we're estranged from our families and that our parents aren't helping with the wedding. At that point, the order had already been solidified, and no matter what I did, she couldn't see the situation from my perspective. I let her know that given the space, we wanted it to be simple and to-the-point, and that we have every intention of including our parents in the wedding programs. I don't want to hurt her, but I think she's too wrapped up in "how things are supposed to be" and "what is traditionally done" to realize that times have changed a bit.
Did anyone else's families have difficulties with the wording of their invitations? How did you deal with it?