I got invited to a friend's wedding. There were no invitations sent out, everything is being organized through facebook as an event. At first, guests were told that it will be a potluck reception and the registry information was provided. I looked back later, and the event info was edited to tell guests to bring their own drinks (no alcohol permitted) and that there will be no seats in the area and that everyone needs to bring their on chair. Now, it looks like the wedding planners want to know the potluck dish that all guests are bringing, and have "approved" the few that were commented back to them.
Am I the only person that feels that asking guests to bring chairs, drinks, and gifts is a burden? Am I wrong to be offended that the couple wants guests to bring a potluck dish, but it has to be pre-approved? Help me get some perspective on this!