This past weekend was my FBIL's wedding. His bride wouldn't let me in the family photos because my FI and I are not technically married yet. It hurt my feelings.
It has felt like every since they got enaged (a few months after my FI and I were engaged) there's been this tension between us. Almost like a competition. I am not sure if she is jealous of my relationship with the FPIL or what.
When it is our turn in 4 months, I will not exclude her from my photos out of spite, although it does feel good thinking about that.