Second PPD!!!

Re: Second PPD!!!

• JCbride2015 member

  

  June 2014

  Somehow I missed this thread the first time around.... still picking my jaw up off the floor at that note!  Holy shit!

  
  

  PLEASE find a way to conceal a GoPro somewhere on your person so you can live stream this monstrosity.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  "I'm not a rude bitch.  I'm ten rude bitches in a large coat."

  
  

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• thisismynickname2 member

  

  June 2014

  You know what.... It's entertaining to think this could all be entertaining, but I'd be more inclined after being invited to be a bridesmaid (ahem, had to choke that one out) to decline, and point out exactly why YOU DECIDED to distance yourself and point out that she might ACTUALLY have difficulty FILLING THE SLOTS because she's rude.  

  
  

  Sometimes people need a reality check, and I feel like this is one of those times. That note is unfuckingbelievable.  

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• jdluvr06 member

  

  June 2014

  thisismynickname said:

  You know what.... It's entertaining to think this could all be entertaining, but I'd be more inclined after being invited to be a bridesmaid (ahem, had to choke that one out) to decline, and point out exactly why YOU DECIDED to distance yourself and point out that she might ACTUALLY have difficulty FILLING THE SLOTS because she's rude.  

  
  

  Sometimes people need a reality check, and I feel like this is one of those times. That note is unfuckingbelievable.  

  Dangit. This is the better idea. You should do that. It would probably be better in the long run even if it is less entertaining for us.

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• jdluvr06 member

  

  June 2014 edited June 2014

  Double post

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• phira member

  

  June 2014

  What the actual ever-loving fuck

  

  now with ~* INCREASED SASSINESS *~
  
  

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• beethery member

  

  June 2014

  jdluvr06 said:

  thisismynickname said:

  You know what.... It's entertaining to think this could all be entertaining, but I'd be more inclined after being invited to be a bridesmaid (ahem, had to choke that one out) to decline, and point out exactly why YOU DECIDED to distance yourself and point out that she might ACTUALLY have difficulty FILLING THE SLOTS because she's rude.  

  
  

  Sometimes people need a reality check, and I feel like this is one of those times. That note is unfuckingbelievable.  

  Dangit. This is the better idea. You should do that. It would probably be better in the long run even if it is less entertaining for us.

  Yeah that's a good fucking call. She's not invited to the wedding anyway, and she seems to think that the reason you and she are not close anymore is one-sided. Give Ursula a reality check and look forward to not getting mail from that craycray no more!
  

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  I'm the fuck out.

  
  

  
  

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• ladyamanuet member

  

  June 2014

  Ya, I concur with the above.  Our entertainment is not more important than putting this crazy bitch in her place. 
  

  My reaction to most everything on the internet today:
  

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• VulgarGirl member

  

  June 2014

  So I called FI about it and she said "Fiona Dove Hiddleston (not my real last name but I like to pretend Tom's my brother and we eat frozen yogurt together), you are not going to be in that cunt's wedding. No way no how. We can go, sure, a free meal is always good. But no, you aren't taking her up on this, it is not good for you you will have a mental breakdown and try to kill her and I'm pretty sure it's a conflict of interest if I represent you, so no", basically as soon as she said "cunt" I knew she meant business. I say that word, she does not. Not in less she very much means it. 

  
  

  But there's no reason I can't wait right up until the due date to phone her up and say no way in hell you crazy woman do you not remember how mean you were to me? 

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• LadyMillil member

  

  June 2014

  Boxes are being a PITA, so no quoting, but WTH kind of commitment is she making if they are already married? Were they just kidding the first time when they committed to each other? It wasn't serious, so they were actually free to see other people and break all their vows? Everything about a SECOND PPD is crazy.

  
  

  

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• beethery member

  

  June 2014

  Don't put yourself through any bullshit you don't have to, but if you want to read her for filth, record and transcribe the conversation for posterity pleeeeeease.

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  I'm the fuck out.

  
  

  
  

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• VulgarGirl member

  

  June 2014

  Would it be totally wrong to say "Yeah, I'm not gonna be your bridesmaid because you aren't going to be a bride because you're already a wife you fucking dingbat? I know I was there the first time you had a re-do", because that's really what I feel like saying.

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• larrygaga member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  Would it be totally wrong to say "Yeah, I'm not gonna be your bridesmaid because you aren't going to be a bride because you're already a wife you fucking dingbat? I know I was there the first time you had a re-do", because that's really what I feel like saying.

  
  

  
  

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  You have two choices

  1. don't go and say this

  2. go and tell us what happens

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• wrigleyville member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  Would it be totally wrong to say "Yeah, I'm not gonna be your bridesmaid because you aren't going to be a bride because you're already a wife you fucking dingbat? I know I was there the first time you had a re-do", because that's really what I feel like saying.

  Yes. Do this.

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• jdluvr06 member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  Would it be totally wrong to say "Yeah, I'm not gonna be your bridesmaid because you aren't going to be a bride because you're already a wife you fucking dingbat? I know I was there the first time you had a re-do", because that's really what I feel like saying.

  
  If you don't plan on maintaining a relationship with this girl then I say go for it.

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• Kauris member

  

  June 2014 edited June 2014

  I'll throw in $20 towards your BM dress if you do this.

  
  

  
  

  ETA: Okay, after further reading, I agree, don't do it. BUT I will still throw $20 toward you going and reporting back...

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• scrunchythief member

  

  June 2014

  Why on earth would anyone go to this save for the train wreck entertainment value?  I normally don't toss the word delusional around, but I can't see any other explanation here.  Did she really spend the past 8 YEARS thinking they weren't married?  
  
  Another vote here for the dingbat response. 

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• VulgarGirl member

  

  June 2014

  scrunchythief said:

  Why on earth would anyone go to this save for the train wreck entertainment value?  I normally don't toss the word delusional around, but I can't see any other explanation here.  Did she really spend the past 8 YEARS thinking they weren't married?  
  
  Another vote here for the dingbat response. 

  As much as I don't like her, I kind of hope she didn't because...that'd point to a pretty serious mental illness and it'd be a lot less fun to mock her. I'm guessing this is more a "our truth" situation. She decided that her pervious wedding isn't "her truth". Or something.

  
  

  This isn't even the only person I know who was married for a long time and then had a PPD and thought of it as a real wedding. There's only one other, married 7 years before the PPD, but justified it by saying it was cause of being Catholic (I now understand what BS this is). But still says they were married, but not really married. But I wasn't involved in that mess. Though that one is still pushing her best friend to have a PPD because she isn't really married because she just went to the court house. Best friend is perfectly sane and says yes of course they're really married and a PPD would be a waste of perfectly good money they need for more important things, like electricity.

  
  

  I just don't get how you go years being married but thinking you aren't, while taking advantage of all the marriage perks. Like...how does that brain even work? 

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• wrigleyville member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  scrunchythief said:

  Why on earth would anyone go to this save for the train wreck entertainment value?  I normally don't toss the word delusional around, but I can't see any other explanation here.  Did she really spend the past 8 YEARS thinking they weren't married?  
  
  Another vote here for the dingbat response. 

  As much as I don't like her, I kind of hope she didn't because...that'd point to a pretty serious mental illness and it'd be a lot less fun to mock her. I'm guessing this is more a "our truth" situation. She decided that her pervious wedding isn't "her truth". Or something.

  
  

  Lololololololollllllll...

  
  

  

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• kitsunegari89 member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  phira said:

  Ahahaha I know you picked the names intentionally but Ursula and Jaffar getting married--I would watch that movie.

  I was totally blanking on another male Disney villain. But yeah, that movie would kick ass.

  

  My colors are "blood of my enemies" and "rage".
  

  
  

  

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• Inkdancer member

  

  June 2014

  MagicInk said:

  OliveOilsMom said:

  You were asked to be a BM for even sides!!!!

  Also, I think you should give them a happy 8th Anniversary Card. 

  Well she's kind of a bitch, so I can see how she's having trouble drumming up friends to make her perfect even sides. I remember her mom freaking out at the first wedding because he didn't have enough friends/family members to even things out. She made some of our male cousins go stand with him. 

  
  

  The 8th anniversary is pottery (or bronze), maybe I'll craft them a nice number 8 to signify the 8 years they've been marred.

  She'll probably think it's an infinity and it's super sweet. Barffff.
  

  

  

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• GuitarSlayer member

  

  June 2014

  No BM or expenditures related to that.  I think dingbat = nuclear option with her (and anyone in her family that agrees with her....her mother was on board for the last one...). 
  
  On the other hand, I want to be regaled with legends of Ursula and Jaffar.  We could probably make a PPD bingo card out of the event -- the ultimate of all PPD, the double PPD. 
  

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• bookworm1115 member

  

  June 2014

  @MagicInk This entire saga has made my day. I definitely vote for not being in a bridesmaid, but waiting to tell her until a day or two before the PPD(2). Also a vote for attending. For the love of god and all of us here, PLEASE go. If you don't want to go, I'm sure someone on here would gladly take your spot to do a full report. And actually having a PPD crasher or two might ruin her day even more! Or make her feel more special...there's really no telling.

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• LadyMillil member

  

  June 2014

  jonathanschloe said:

  @MagicInk This entire saga has made my day. I definitely vote for not being in a bridesmaid, but waiting to tell her until a day or two before the PPD(2). Also a vote for attending. For the love of god and all of us here, PLEASE go. If you don't want to go, I'm sure someone on here would gladly take your spot to do a full report. And actually having a PPD crasher or two might ruin her day even more! Or make her feel more special...there's really no telling.

  Then she gets a third PPD! Since her wedding and her first PPD were ruined and required do-overs, she's gotta keep doing it until she gets it perfect

  
  

  

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• TerriHugg member

  

  June 2014

  I'm normally on the fence about PPD's but even I have to agree that this is beyond tacky!!! Absolutely ridiculous.

  

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