So I've never been to a jack n jill but it's my understanding that people pay to go. Is it replacing bach parties or showers or both?
I was recently invited to one and I can't attend anyway but I thought it seemed pretty tacky. A coworker approached me and asked me if I wanted to "buy some tickets". A lot of people from work seem to be going, and there is going to be a pig roast (2 pigs!) and a bunch of kegs. I just started working here a couple months ago and don't know anything about this guy other than his name. Do so many people usually get invited, and is it just for the money or what? Having a huge party like this seems almost like having the wedding itself, so I just don't get the point of it. I am not invited to the wedding by any means so I don't know if this is even normal?