So my mom has recently lost a lot of weight (and i am so proud of her) but she is asking and wanting to wear something someone HALF her age should wear and wants to match the bridesmaids. My mother is in her mid 50's and she wants to wear something "Sexy" and "flattering" which to me might look awkward for not only my fiances side of the family but also my fathers side who hasnt seen her since my parents got a divorce 20 years ago. How can i tell her i want her to wear something more age appropriate and not matching my bridesmaids?
(It will be flattering but more appropriate to someone her age)