The night I got engaged I called my best friend and asked her to be in my wedding. She said of course. I was living in GA and she in TX. We had a long engagement, so I renewed my offer a couple of years later - she still in TX, I still in GA. She said she would be there. That was 6 months ago and I have heard nothing from her. I call, I text, I eMail - nothing. She has not responded to mass emails to all my girls about what dresses to get, nor has she asked me what she is supposed to wear. I have 3 bridesmaids in Texas, and the other two have not had any issues getting their dresses. They also constantly ask me how they can help - and one even flew out for my shower. I don't think distance is a fair excuse at this point....the wedding is now less than 3 months away - I have called 3 times in the past 6 days, and again, nothing. How long do I give her before I "kick her out" of the wedding party? And how do I do it? I am super non-confrontational and this is very difficult for me to address.