We got married a few weeks ago and have been going through our presents and are missing a good deal (all from our friends, not from family and/or parents' friends). I know that etiquette says people have up to a year after the wedding to send a gift and aren't required to, but these specific people are ones whose weddings we've gone to recently (with gift) or long-time friends. Most oddly is that one of my bridesmaids didn't give a gift and hasn't mentioned anything. Is there any polite way to find out what's going on? Do people really end up sending a gift 8 months after the wedding, or do they just forget? I really don't want to sound greedy but most of the missing gifts are from pretty close friends so it's odd.