My sister is my only attendant will be 46 at the time of my wedding and I'm not sure what I should suggest for her to wear. Our color is navy so it should be easy (ish) to find something that will work, but I'm not sure what direction to go in. She just had a mastectomy and will be having reconstruction in the next few months (wedding is next May). She lives on the completely opposite side of the country so I don't even know what she looks like/will look like post-surgery. I just want her to feel comfortable but I'd like to give her some suggestions because she's really indecisive and I think would prefer some direction. I rarely even see her in dresses, so I have no idea even where to start.
Does anyone have any suggestions for or links to something age-appropriate (no huge ruffles/flowers!) and something that isn't too low-cut? She already has a port scar on her chest from a previous bout of cancer when she was younger that I know she doesn't love and I have no idea what the scarring will be like from her surgeries now but I'm guessing she will want any scars covered.