"Bridechilla"???

Re: "Bridechilla"???

• lyndausvi mod

  

  June 2014

  Senecaf said:

  I've gotten a lot of flack for being too chill. But I really don't care of you have your hair up or down. I really don't care of you all have the same exact shoes and identical dresses. My FMIL an BMs were annoyed with me at first. I do t know why, they know that is just my personality

  This was me.   My BMs were so annoyed they got together at my shower to discuss what shoes, jewelry, hair, whatever they should wear.  I just rolled my eyes.  They thought I was being passive aggressive.  Umm, no.  I really did not care.     I was in most of their weddings and thought they were silly requesting such details.

  
  

  In the end they ended up with the same diamond stud earrings and the same shoe color, but that was it.

  
  

  My SIL showed up at the rehearsal with purple streaks in her  bobbed hair.  I was like "awesome, it looks great".  I think they were testing me or something.  I really meant I like it.  Anyway, she showed up sans purple streak, but with extensions at the wedding the next day.   Whatever. 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  

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• MaryGraceRich member

  

  June 2014

  My bridal party constantly questioned me everytime I said i didnt care which dress they picked. I picked a color and length and fabric. Then they kept asking about shoes and hair and stuff and I said "Do what you want.". They would respond with "Its your wedding, dont you care." Of course I dont care about their shoes or hair. They are adults. They know what looks good on them.
  They even accused me of being too calm the day of. I told them I had nothing to be nervous about. I knew who was waiting for me at the end of that aisle. No need for nerves and I can control excitement until the party.

  

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• mrscomposer member

  

  June 2014

  I'm more MOHzilla for my sister than I am zilla for myself - I want everything perfect for her, but if it doesn't work out that way for me, then hey, who cares, I'm married to my guy (which is exactly the same way she thinks).

  It also helps that I'm two provinces away from my family.  My girls will have nothing to do except show up and look fabulous, because the commute is a killer.

  And J is a total groomchilla, despite the fact that he has to do all the 'girly crafting stuff' with me (his words) because of the aforementioned distance.

  **The OMH formerly known as jsangel1018**

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• afox007 member

  

  June 2014

  I had my BFF annoyed with me a few weeks ago for apparently not caring about my own wedding. She asked if I had looked at bridesmaid dresses yet and I told her I hadn't because I won't be picking them. Once I narrow down my colors they can all find a dress in any of those colors.
  
  She freaked out because my pictures are going to be a cluster fuck. My only response was pulling up the great pic from her bday last year where no one matched at all.

  

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