My cousin's bridal shower in in two weeks. The RSVP date was Saturday. My aunt (cousin's mom) emailed me Saturday to see if I knew if my FSIL (brother's FI) would be attending. FSIL never RVSP'd and I'm sure my aunt assumes I have contact with her often.
I sent FSIL a text Saturday morning. No reply.
I talked to my mom Saturday night and mentioned the situation. She said she would try to contact FSIL on Sunday. My mom called FSIL (she didn't answer) and sent her a text (no reply).
I am super annoyed with my FSIL. If you don't want to come, just fucking say you can't. You had more than enough time to RSVP. And then to just ignore me and my mom? WTF. I would never in a million years ignore my FI's family like this.
FSIL seems to have no problem with me or my mother, so I can't imagine that's why she would be ignoring us. She asked me to be her MOH and tells me all the time how much she loves me. My mom is great to her and is even taking her kid (from a previous marriage) on vacation with her and my dad next month.