I've asked 9 friends to be bridesmaids in my wedding and m having doubts about whether or not I asked the right people. I love them all and have been through so much with them and have tons of memories, but I think I included 2 of the girls since they are part of the larger group and not necessarily because I needed them there. And now I'm afraid it will be too much for me on the day of and might look tacky. Help..