Im getting married in October this year. I have just finalised my guest list. All VIP's and family and friends coming over from North America were given a save-the-date so they had plenty of time to prepare and save.
Fast Forward to last night where a former friend (who I haven't spoken to in 2 years) sent a message to a mutual friend who is invited. Tracey asked Gareth if he was invited. He replied 'yes'. Tracey told him 'that's what Karen said too'. I have no issue with them telling her they are invited. I have issue with Tracey pushing the issue with Gareth.
Tracey is recently pregnant and is going to Europe a month and a half before her due date...and coming over to where I live. Fine. Travel where you like. But she sent a message to Gareth that said 'Im going to Germany and then on to Ireland (where I live). What is Lowell14's favourite charity? Once Im there, I guess I'll find a charity to donate Lowell14's wedding gift too'
Now, Karen has already said she cannot make it over, so im not 100% sure if Tracey thinks I can just slot them in to the 2 spaces left. Also, she hasnt contacted me AT ALL! she just talks to Gareth which I feel bad about. But Gareth told me not to contact her unless she contacts me.
She just vaguebooks me 'I see you posted a ring on your wall. Do you have something to tell me?' (Why yes, My uncles a jeweller and his rings are beautiful). I congratulated her on the pregnancy (as I would any friend, irl or fb) she then posted on my wall 'You have a countdown too!'
So far as I know, she doesn't know the time and venue for the wedding. I cant be 100% of her not knowing the date. Part of me is debating sending a private message to our guests and asking them not to post anything wedding-related on my wall...but that may be too much lol
Again, I ask 'What is wrong with people?'