@phira - me too… In fact, anything that I can wait for 2 days to have delivered, I will usually order from Amazon. Because I'm lazy. And it's quick.
Confession: It took me way too long to catch up on this thread. And while there were some responses about my UO, I haven't responded because I think they're irrelevant now that we've moved on.
Complaint: There is way too much to read on NEY lately and I've been too busy to read and participate :-(
Complaint: FI's childhood best friend was supposed to come visit us for the weekend at the beginning of August, but since they've now both been invited to a bachelor party that weekend, it's not happening. I'm annoyed because I was going to introduce him to my single ex-roommate and they were going to make out and fall in love and he would move down here and then two of our best friends would be dating, but this idiot went and ruined my plans.
Irrational Irritation: I have too many "Facebook Friends" from my first college who are gorgeous, rich, and getting married. All I see lately are their stunning wedding photos and it makes me stupidly jealous even though I know I'll have the perfect wedding for me and FI.
Irrational Irritation: My best friend texted me on Monday asking for my recipe for lemon bars so she could make them for her party tomorrow, and I gave it to her. This morning she asked if instead of bringing a bottle of wine I could make the lemon bars instead. I had to tell her no because I have plans after work today and am going to visit someone in the hospital tomorrow morning before her party, so I literally have no time to do it. I always JUMP at the chance to bake something for people, and I'm annoyed she didn't just ask me earlier because I would have done it!
Confession: I don't want FI to go to his friend's bachelor party upstate in a few weeks because I will have been on a business trip from Sunday to Tuesday night, and then he'll leave on Friday for one or two nights and that's too many nights apart in one week :-(
Whateva: I bought THIS bikini last night and I love it and can't wait to wear it to a pool party tomorrow and another one in two weeks.
@Hummingbird125 now I just want to know what rich and snazzy college you went to as your first college Your wedding will be amazing and gorgeous because you will be there! Also, I totally purge my facebook friends every so often - maybe you're due?
I guess, to tell you the truth, I've never had much of a desire to grow facial hair. I think I've managed to play quarterback just fine without a mustache. - Peyton
Complaint: I echo @hummingbird125 about there being so much stuff to read. I can't catch up!
Confession: I feel almost like a stalker because I've been doing a lot of my reading of TK on my phone and it's a bitch and won't let me post, so I haven't been posting much. This leads to the inevitable feeling of I know everyone here yet none of y'all know me well.
Complaint: My computer is acting all screwy and slow and it's being super annoying.
II (or possibly RI): My dad just needs to stop. My brother just bought his first house (YAY!) and now the whole family is slaving away trying to help him fix it up (removing wallpaper and popcorn ceilings, ect.). He's trying to guilt me into going over and helping. No. I went over for a week straight and helped. I'm not going over today to help when I have a date tonight with BF. Also, he needs to stop talking abotu the house 24/7. I understand, he's excited. But he's overwhelming my brother and trying to give him advice (some of it wrong and super paranoid) and getting in the way of my brother making his own decisions. He's basically bulldozing my brother and it's not cool at all.
Complaint/Sympathies for some of the other NEY posters: It hurts when I have sex too. It sucks. And my sex drive is tanked. I went to the GYN to talk about it but she didn't know what was wrong. And BF just doesn't seem to understand that it hurts and that I just don't want sex. He has an insane sex drive (seriously, if he could have sex 10 times a day he'd be happy and able to do it) and I can't keep up with it. He tells me he just doesn't understand not wanting sex because he wants it ALL.THE.TIME. Like, we can finish having sex and he'll turn to me and go "Can we have round 2 now?" not even a minute after we finished having sex for 30 minutes! And it freaks me out because I don't know if I can handle it long term because I feel so guilty for not wanting sex like he does and I don't know if I can fix my super low sex drive.
@FoxandBunny I feel you on the sex drive thing. FI has pretty much stopped trying to initiate sex because I've turned him down so many times. I feel so guilty. I used to have a very high sex drive and I don't know what happened. I've tried herbal pills that are supposed to help your libido and I've gone off my anxiety meds. Nothing has helped. Also sex never used to hurt for me and sometimes it does now. I feel kind of broken.
Thanks @phira! And I agree with @BreMR, talking about this with women is never TMI IMO. I will definitely have to look into the dilators! I did read that it could be vaginismus, and the speculum and probe for the ultrasound were both super painful, but my doctor was just like "there's nothing wrong with you" as I was writhing in pain.
Thanks @phira! And I agree with @BreMR, talking about this with women is never TMI IMO. I will definitely have to look into the dilators! I did read that it could be vaginismus, and the speculum and probe for the ultrasound were both super painful, but my doctor was just like "there's nothing wrong with you" as I was writhing in pain.
Of COURSE there's nothing wrong with you, you're just in a ton of pain during an exam that shouldn't be painful, nothing to see here folks.
For real, it might be vaginismus, especially if you can sometimes tolerate penetration.
@phira I think that you are right. BF and I have had a few good times in the past 6 months, but I can count them on one hand, which is a nightmare! We both have stressful jobs and I want good sex a few times a week as a way to relieve the stress! I am ordering those dilators as soon as we get back to San Diego on Sunday.
Re: UO/II/Complaints/Whateva
Confession: I don't want FI to go to his friend's bachelor party upstate in a few weeks because I will have been on a business trip from Sunday to Tuesday night, and then he'll leave on Friday for one or two nights and that's too many nights apart in one week :-(
Whateva: I bought THIS bikini last night and I love it and can't wait to wear it to a pool party tomorrow and another one in two weeks.