My bf got a wedding invitation from a friend. I was not invited. He and I have been together over a year and are planning marriage. I have met the engaged couple several times and have been to their house before. I think I had every right to be upset at their rudeness in excluding me, but being upset is as far as I would have taken it.
He texted and wanted to know why I wasn't invited and told them how it made me feel.
They were nice enough to pretend that it was an accidental oversight, which was gracious of them, but I am so incredibly embarrassed that he did that! I would never have let on that I was hurt. I certainly would never have demanded an invitation.
Needless to say I am not going! I would be too embarrassed to show up. I wasn't invited in the first place, so clearly they didn't want me there.
I am absolutely mortified. I can't believe he actually texted them with a guilt trip for excluding me.
Besides sending them a nice card and a gift registry from both of us, is there anything I can do to save face? I don't want them thinking the text was my idea, but then again maybe this is a case of "least said, soonest mended?"