My finance's family has been very vocal about the fact that they think weddings are a big waste of money. His parent's are well off (probably because they don't every spend money...). My fiance's sister got married at her house when she was 5 mos. pregnant, which is very nice, but it was just too informal for me. Having trays of food from Costco is not what I want to do. I understand that is perfectly fine for some people. I only want around 75 guests--nothing over the top. Anytime I bring it up they are negative and make me feel awful. I feel like they won't even help pay for the rehearsal dinner. My parents are helping with 75% of the wedding expenses, and I am paying the rest. I have money saved up from working very hard, and I feel like what is the point of working so hard if I can't spend money on the things that are important to me. There negativity is really getting me down. I was almost in tears and dinner at their house. If they aren't paying why are they so opinionated? I don't know how to deal with this...I mean I want them to have a good time and be supportive but their attitudes make me not even want to do anything. I can't even concentrate on my work or sleep because of this. I want them to be happy for us. I could really use some advice. Thanks