So a friend of mine is getting married next weekend and she was telling me last night how instead of the glass clinking, singing, etc. to cue the newlyweds to kiss.. Her and her FI are doing a donation jar, with all the money going to the Humane Society. So if guests want them to kiss, they put money in the jar.
She suggested we do something similar with a donation jar to a cancer fund in my sister's name, as we lost her to cancer in October. I have been vehemently against asking my guests to open their wallets for ANYTHING at our wedding, and I can't decide where this idea falls on the etiquette spectrum. For the record, my FI and I weren't going to do any "cutesy" kissing thing, so I don't have my heart set on this idea by any means. Just curious what you ladies would say!
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