Hi! So we are down to 20 days before the big day and I am trying to figure out how to organize the escort cards. We will be listing our guests alphabetically by last name but that is where my confusion starts. I have some families whose spouses and children have different last names. Do they go under their own last name or are they put under the original invitee's last name? What about guests' bringing their significant other with a different last name or no last name provided?
Also, we have two unknown "guests". We have been trying to find out their names through all means but have been unable to do so. Do they get an escort card that says "Guy Lastname's Guest" or is it better to not give them one at all? I do not want to be rude to them, but we live internationally and had even the hardest time finding an address to send to these 2 family members.
We are using luggage tags placed inside an old luggage and using mini signs with letters for the alphabetical order, not sure if this changes anything since it isn't cards laid out side by side on a table.