Here is the the update on that "lovely couple" I will just call them Jack and Jill. So we meet them at a wonderful formal restaurant around 7 o'clock sharp. They are not there yet and eventually arrive lat near 730. So much for being punctual with the time. My Fi and Jack shake hands while Jill tries to give me a hug. I am not feeling her and something is giving me bad vibes. So we are seated and my Fi and Jack start talking and he event congratulates them by handing the couple a Congrats card signed by the two of us. Jill opens it and looks disappointed that there was no cash or gift card it in. My fi told me later he really was surprised that they opened it instead of waiting till they got home.
They went into more detail about why they decided to get married while we were eating. They told us that they didn't want to wait to December after thinking about it. They were going to the vacation house and "all the people we wanted to be present was there". During dinner they made more statements and my FI was giving me the signal that he was heated. We walked out after paying our waiter on the way out and it was then and there my FI realized that he no longer had a best friend since they both lacked respect, awareness, and compassion. They both basically said you were not important even though we sent you a save the date. My Fi said he wouldn't be so damn pissed if they never sent out save the dates to 200 people.
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.