I have this huge problem with my future mother in law. My fiance and I are paying for everything but everything I want I just "can't do" because "it's not right" then my fiance switches from loving our ideas we came up with together to well we need to do it right and her way.
She wants to turn my rustic outdoor wedding into a High class thing we can't afford at all.
We say its over our budget she says sorry save more in the next year. But we can't do that and pay our bills. I'm going to end up hating my wedding and paying way to much possibly loosing my house in the process. And a week ago she tells me my fiance.needs to just quit his job because its stressful and he will have a stroke. He's healthy ans 32. We work at the same place how.would we ever afford the expensive high class stuff she wants then?? What's wrong with her. I haven't gotten to choose one thing yet. Theme and colors fiance chose. And he agrees with her invitations food and not having music. When music is most important to me. Wedding from hell help.
Why do I need to tell her every detail she isn't paying and it isn't her wedding she only wants to know so she can say no. I would do anything not to have a wedding and elope which is what I wanted then I agreed to a 25 person super non traditional thing and she keeps adding guests. We at 200 now. And I need to order extra plates for my neighbors to take to them because they have been good neighbors and each guest needs favors totaling $23. I want to cry everyday and I have a year still of this hell. Fiance won't listen to anyone but mommy.