My fiance and I are planning on moving cross country right around a year after we get married. We would really prefer to have as little as possible to have to ship/move when we leave the state. Is it completely unacceptable to ask for gift cards or cash? We had already planned on only taking the necessities and purchasing new things once we get to our new home state. And having cash either for items or a down payment on a place or gift cards would be waaaay more useful.