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I QUIT BEING THE ADULT CHILD!!!!!!!

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  • afox007afox007 member
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    Camping won't work out since I work Friday and Saturday night. Plus the last camping trip we went on all of us got into a huge fight and that was without my mom pulling all this shit.
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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
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    Yeah, a camping trip might not be the best idea. I love camping but sleeping on the ground, not getting a ton of sleep, dealing with bugs - it's not great when there's already a ton going to on cause tension and high tempers!


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    lolo883 said:
    bethsmiles said:
    Yeah, a camping trip might not be the best idea. I love camping but sleeping on the ground, not getting a ton of sleep, dealing with bugs - it's not great when there's already a ton going to on cause tension and high tempers!
    Ya'll need to come camping with my family. Campers with real beds and AC, crab legs or steak fajitas for dinner, homemade funnel cakes, and alcohol as far as the eye can see.
    Haha...that's how my family camps but SO refuses to use a camper. He insists that we do only tent camping. I love it really but once we have kids I'm not taking them camping without a camper! I don't think my sanity could handle that!


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  • afox007afox007 member
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    bethsmiles said:


    lolo883 said:


    bethsmiles said:

    Yeah, a camping trip might not be the best idea. I love camping but sleeping on the ground, not getting a ton of sleep, dealing with bugs - it's not great when there's already a ton going to on cause tension and high tempers!

    Ya'll need to come camping with my family. Campers with real beds and AC, crab legs or steak fajitas for dinner, homemade funnel cakes, and alcohol as far as the eye can see.

    Haha...that's how my family camps but SO refuses to use a camper. He insists that we do only tent camping. I love it really but once we have kids I'm not taking them camping without a camper! I don't think my sanity could handle that!

    I'm kinda like your SO; if I'm going camping I demand a tent! I love camping, but camping with my mom always leads to drama since unlike at home we can't just run to our rooms and slam the door. Plus right now I know I can not be around her if I've been drinking because all that liquid courage would result in finally losing it on her.
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  • jenajjthrjenajjthr member
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    Lots of hugs to you, your sisters, and your dad. He may be stepdad, but in your heart it sounds like he's your dad. 

    I know that when I caught my ex in yet another cheating incident and we would fight, my oldest would hustle the younger two to the bedroom and hide as well. I still struggle with this guilt of how I didn't handle the situation in the most adult manner that I could have. If you can help your sisters by giving them the physical space away from them and give them love, support, laughter, pizza, soda, chocolate, stability, chocolate, you will be able to give them a moment of peace that they and you so richly deserve. I'm sorry you guys have to go through this yet again.

    I know your dad thinks he is doing the best for the little ones by staying until they are older, I thought the same thing too. But by staying in a toxic relationship he is doing more harm than good. My children and I are so much happier after getting out of my prior relationship. 
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  • wandajune6wandajune6 member
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    I don't have anything helpful to share but I just want to offer lots of hugs and warm thoughts.
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