My fiance and I have been together almost 4 years and have a son together. He proposed to me on our 3 yr. . He gave me his mom's engagement ring from when his parents got engaged and my fingers are tiny. The ring is too big and he keeps buying crap ( small flying drone, bike chans) (I know he sounds like he's 12) and I really want to wear my ring. We live paycheck to paycheck but we are not poor by any means. I feel if he really wanted to truly marry me, he would have cleaned the ring up, and make it presentable. I'm not "working" right now but I get child support from my son's biological father, but I don't feel that "I' have to pay for my ring to get fixed so I can actually wear it....What should I do?