Should my stepmother walk down during the prelude before my grandmother, the MOG, and MOB? My father is gonna want her to, but she's the woman my dad left my mom for ten years ago. I don't mind either way, but I don't want to cause drama with my Mom/her family and I don't want to piss off my dad. It's one of those "damned if you do, damned if you don't" things. Someone is gonna be hurt. Suggestions? My gut tells me to just let her walk right before/as the prelude starts with my uncle and warn my mom ahead of time to eliminate total shock. But I'm also not close to Stepmom at all, so her walking down the aisle doesnt matter to me, but it will to my dad. Blah.