Hi. My fiance and I have been talking about getting married for a while and he just proposed! I'm very excited, but nervous about one thing - he really wants a Catholic ceremony.
I know that you talk to the priest, and there are rules about where the ceremony has to be done, but I'm worried about how the priest will respond to my very not-religiousness. I don't want kids. I use a form of BC that the Church considers an aborficant. My fiance and I have been co-habitating, which the Church does not like very much.
I want this to work for him. But I worry about the awkwardness of finding a priest (my fiance is currently not active in the church, another point of potential contention) and dealing with the expectations of the Catholic church vs. my convictions.
Any advice would be extremely helpful. Thank you!