This post has been twisted to make me sound like a crazy person. My fiancé's father and his father's wife mentioned that "this year is about [us])... We did not say that. Don't waste your time typing comments here-I am not interested in hearing comments that are based on misinterpretations. Decision has been made.
Re: No longer need advice.
Of all the battles to pick, a corsage costs what, $20? Just do it and be gracious.
Came for the bat signal. Thanks for quoting MNvegas.
Also, OP, be sure to include her in family pictures. He is your FI's dad's wife and belongs in family photos.
The more I think about it, I agree that nobody necessarily needs a corsage ... but, if I went to a wedding and saw that the father of the groom's wife didn't have a corsage, but his aunt did, I'd raise an eyebrow and wonder why she got slighted. Cost-benefit analysis - it'll cost you max $20 and will just keep the peace.
I'm the fuck out.
I'm the fuck out.