I am having a wedding in fl and all my family and friends are in NY. I have a huge family and my FI luckily does not. We are trying to budget for 80 people but I have 8aunts and uncles on each side plus marriage so about 30 aunts and uncles alone. There are some I'm not very close with. So I have been trying to just think of the ones I actually keep in touch with. How do you invite one and not the other? This is so incredibly difficult to do. For instance I have a cousin with three brothers and I'm only close with him not his brothers and not his parents. This issue is making me crazy! Any ideas??