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Creepy Fiance
FI creeped the hell out of me in the middle of the night. So I'm sleeping, and I tend to be a pretty light sleeper. I was sleeping on my side, facing him, when I opened my eyes . FI was sitting half upright in bed, with a hand on my thigh, looking directly behind me, towards the window. I immediately said "Jeez, babe, what the hell are you doing?!!" He just stayed there for a few more seconds, and then jumped out of bed and walked over to the radiator which is under the window. He kinda leaned over it, still looking outside the window. I thought he maybe saw something outside, or heard something. He then walked back into bed, with that blank expression on his face and said "I don't hear it." So I said, "Here what?" And he muttered something that sounded like "The chicks..." And I responded, "What?!" He then said a little louder "The jets... in the tower...thingy." And then just went back to sleep.
Either I had a really weird vivid dream, or FI was sleepwalking. He used to sleepwalk as a kid, and every once in a while he says weird stuff in his sleep, which creeps me out - so I'm gonna go with FI sleepwalking, and not me dreaming this up. I told him this morning and he didn't totally believe me, but then he said he was probably trying to lower the temperature in the room because it was so damn cold.
Halloween must be in the air. Any of your SO's do anything weird and creepy lately?
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Re: Creepy Fiance
ETA - tenses, they should match
I had a migraine two nights ago so I went to bed early to try and nip it in the butt. FI stayed up and was playing videogames. A few hours later I wake up because I hear some scratching on the door. Kitty doesn't have front claws, so I'm sitting up in bed and I see a shadow under the door, I grab the baseball bat that's beside the bed and get up fully prepared to bash whoever it is that's scratching on the door.
I'm still half asleep, so the thought that FI isn't in bed doesn't occur to me. I open the door with the bat ready to swing and find FI on the floor with the birdy sitting on his hand. He's trying to teach the parrot how to knock with his claw, but the bird is just scraping his claws on the door.
He said he was sorry to wake me up, but he thought that I would be so passed out from the migraine meds that it wouldn't matter. Freaking gave me a heartattack.
That is really really creepy.
FI sometimes get these weird "spells" at night. We've been to doctors, neurologists, sleep studies, etc. No one can figure out what they are, so they can't treat them. The doctors usually end up blaming them on sleepwalking, but I don't buy it. Luckily they only happen a couple of times a year, but they are so creepy. It usually starts with what I would consider a weird seizure (he's always face down, so I can't exactly see. But then he gets up and is totally out of it. He doesn't know who I am and is completely out of touch with reality. Then he gets incredibly upse Last time I was asking him questions and trying to get him to calm down and he just strings random words together that make no sense. (My name was "cancer shopping.") It's really scary because I can't help him, and we have no idea what is going on.
ETD-words are hard
My cat was really weird the other night I was having really weird/unsettling dreams (probably from watching both the Purge:Anarchy and Annabelle just before bed) when I was woken up by something nudging my elbow and what felt like sandpaper. I finally open my eyes and my cat just looks at me then turns around and goes back to sleep.
We both talk in our sleep. I apparently like to count?? I guess I count to 10 really fast randomly in my sleep. I also grind my teeth when I'm stressed.
FI, on the other hand will do like many of you describe where he sits up, appears to be awake, starts a conversation, but it quickly devolves in to nonsense and gibberish. That's when I realize he isn't actually awake and I can get him to lay back down.
He'd be horrified to know I shared this, but he has also peed in the bed about 3 times since we've been together. He says he has dreams where he has gotten up to pee, but then he's woken up by the wetness. And of course that involves us both getting up, tearing sheets off the bed and starting laundry in the middle of the night. No fun!