I awoke to a social media post (Drama, thy name is Facebook!) from a woman I know (we were casual friends). I was invited to her wedding last year (really surprised I was invited as we aren't really close) but couldn't go because of a business trip. The post says something along the lines of "5 years ago today I met my Husband. Two years ago today we went to the registry office and signed our marriage papers, and and last year today we had our real wedding. I love you, HUSBAND!"
That is the moment my news feed blew up. Replies were exactly what you would expect:
1.) "wait, what do you mean you were married 2 years ago?! What did I go to last year?"
2.) "You mean I paid for a hotel and train tickets and it wasn't even your wedding?"
3.) Why didn't you get married at your "real wedding"? I'm hurt I didn't see you actually get married.
She responds as everyone is getting very cross: "We kept it quiet, even from our best friends that we were already married as we wanted to celebrate with everyone! We You have to understand that!"
Best friend responds: "Yes, it is true, she didn't even tell me... nice to know someone you consider a sister will lie to you for a year."
They aren't speaking now....
Re: Another reason to not "get married now" and have a PPD later
Oh right, everyone.
Oh wow! You KNOW people have reached the peak of ridiculousness when they pull out the jealous card. YEP, you got me!
Formerly martha1818
It is the business of no one else ONLY if you do not involve anyone else.
I actually DO have a SS example that everyone understood - but they were upfront with everyone. The grooms mother was going to die of cancer before the wedding. They were married at her death bed, with nobody else present.
They still had their fancy wedding a couple months later, wedding gown and all, and to my knowledge, nobody side eyed because - come on. But those truly were extenuating circumstances and people knew about what happened.
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I'm so glad that so many people are outraged, though. It shows that common sense and decency still reign, despite what the PPDers here and in the wedding industry would lead us to believe.
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