My wedding is now 6 months away and I've done 100% of the planning legwork to date (venue, officiant, caterer, photographer, invitations). I'd really like my fiancee to be involved, and he's definitely expressed to me that he wants to be. After several discussions he agreed (many months ago now...) to take on the music planning (ceremony & reception), because that's what he enjoys and he has many more opinions on what he likes than I do. However, he's dragging his feet and hasn't even made inquiries into these things yet! Occasionally I ask him how it's going, or if he needs help, or if he knows where to go to find the vendors. Recently I pointed out that there is a schedule we need to stick to because many vendors are already booked up 6 months out. I really don't want to be a nag, I also don't want to take this away from him, and I'm also totally over-committed with no extra time to take on another task, but he's making me anxious! Do I just let it go and let it happen when/how it happens? I know I must not be alone in this experience - any advice, ladies?