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Re: Guest Problem

  • flutteringinflflutteringinfl member
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    If she has a problem with your relationship because she has a thing for your FI, then she needs to get over it and your FI needs to establish boundaries stat.

    If she has a problem with your relationship because you have a seven year old son, she can suck an egg. Sure, entering a relationship with a kid involved is a big deal but that's between you and your FI and the idea that people think you shouldn't be together because of that makes my blood boil for you.

    I will say that when my dad got engaged to a woman with two small children (I know, lots of parental wedding drama), I expressed concern. Not because I didn't like her or her children, but because every time I got together with him he would do nothing but complain about them, so my concern was more, "Woah, you're gonna be their father figure, you know. Are you sure you're the right guy for that, with how much you moan?"
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  • levioosalevioosa member
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    This is weird.  I don't know why she's trying so hard to be a part of your FI's family, but it's creepy.

    What does FI think about all this?  


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  • plainjane0415plainjane0415 member
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    HReis13 said:
    It sounds like this girl has a thing for your FI and is probably threatened by your relationship. That is the only thing I can think of. Is your FI just turning a cheek to this odd behavior, or does he found it equally weird? I agree with everyone else saying there needs to be boundaries... and I think the first boundary should be not inviting her to your wedding!

    I haven't read through all the comments, but the above pretty much sums up my thoughts on it all.
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  • KahlylaKahlyla member
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    edited December 2014
    I have to agree with some of the above interpretations. She doesn't sound evil or bitchy or malicious, but she could still have a thing for your fiance and be trying to show him (and his family) that he should be with her, not you. She's just a sweet-stalker instead of a psycho-stalker, KWIM? Maybe she isn't going about this in a horrible nasty way but it still sounds like she's trying to make something happen, which is horribly inappropriate at best.
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  • JellyBean52513JellyBean52513 member
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    I hope your FI understands how very inappropriate it would be to invite someone to your wedding who has explicitly stated that they do not fully support it and would have negative thoughts while attending. What an absolute waste of a plate, invite, and stamp.
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