Oh Hai
Since I started posting the only polite thing to do is introduce myself.
39, never been married. Been with current boyfriend for almost 4 years. Since we are two commitment phobes in a relationship we are currently quite happy living separately (though planning to move in together next summer) and discussing marriage in vague terms. By vague terms I mean. We plan to get married a few years down the road.
Crazy catlady. Currently without a cat because I am still getting over saying goodbye to my dearest friend and my best beloved last summer.
Been reluctant to post because I am not engaged nor planning a wedding, just discussing a future idea of one with boyfriend. But Good god, I have been in so many damn weddings over the years I feel confident I can weigh in with advice. Although I am so sick and tired of weddings my attitude has become: Why do I want to plan a hugely expensive stress filled nightmare? I can fight with my Mom for free, I don’t need to light $20,000 on fire to do it. (Please note: I hold this opinion for myself and myself only. I would never judge someone else’s wedding simply because it wasn’t what I wanted. Although I will judge poor hosting and PPD’s. I feel this way because I am personally wedding-ed out and I have never, not once, enjoyed being in a wedding)
I am blunt, sarcastic, snarky, and often more than a bit strange. I love musical theatre and science fiction. Whiskey is my drink of choice and Joan Holloway is my hero.
Re: Oh Hai
Hi there.
If you are wedding-ed out, then you might want to stick to this board. We still talk about weddings a lot, but obviously not as much as the other boards.
How do you feel about cash bars and dollar dances?
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
holyguacamole79 Ahhhh! I love the kitty! Last meal: Since I developed a nasty intolerance to wheat about 7 years back I would say all those lovely bready things I can't eat anymore and I can't find gluten free. Croissants, spanakopita, éclairs, mozzarella sticks, jalapeno poppers....
novella1186 I love my Jamesons (or any other Irish Whiskey) neat.
sarawifenow I have no problem talking about weddings, just don't want to be involved in them in anyway shape or form. Cash bars and dollar dances. Yuck.Formerly martha1818
The screen name was easy. I am a witch. I like booze.
I'm the fuck out.
Oxford Comma?
I totally read this in the Casper voice. And I say Hell to the YES!!!!!!!!!!!
Aww shucks guys, this is the warmest welcome I have ever gotten on the interwebs.
jenna8984 Favorite place I have ever visited without a doubt was Ireland, I am dying to go back. I also want to see more of Europe.
JaniV123 Not exactly a type persay. I follow the Scott Cunnigham philosophy of "follow your gut and do what works best for you". I am completely self taught through independent study and comparing notes with other witches and spending the years gleaning knowledge and finding the right fit for me.