Fuming right now.

novella1186 · December 2014

buttercup1958 said:

novella1186 Trust me, I know how you feel. My family has called me cold, heartless, I lack love and passion for my family. I will also have a hard life if I don't change who I am as a person. This all came from me sitting down while they tried on things, refusing to be a part of their racist conversations, lacking excitement for seeing a football stadium, and not feeling comfortable with being shoved.
I've been going to therapy and it has helped me a lot to talk about these things. Their words don't affect me because I know they aren't true. If this happened when I was 16, I would still be crying about it. Just because you refuse to let them control you doesn't mean you don't love them. I think that is a important thing to remember. Do I love my family? Yes but they are emotionally draining and I have learned a long time ago that I can only handle them in small doses. Please PM if you want to talk about this or anything else!

Thank you so much. And right back at you! PM me if you ever want to talk about it. Today was my second therapy session and I loved it. I still have a lot of work to do, but thanks to you guys and my therapist, at least I know I'm headed in the right direction. I really appreciate the support

buttercup1958 · December 2014

novella1186 said:

buttercup1958 said:

novella1186 Trust me, I know how you feel. My family has called me cold, heartless, I lack love and passion for my family. I will also have a hard life if I don't change who I am as a person. This all came from me sitting down while they tried on things, refusing to be a part of their racist conversations, lacking excitement for seeing a football stadium, and not feeling comfortable with being shoved.
I've been going to therapy and it has helped me a lot to talk about these things. Their words don't affect me because I know they aren't true. If this happened when I was 16, I would still be crying about it. Just because you refuse to let them control you doesn't mean you don't love them. I think that is a important thing to remember. Do I love my family? Yes but they are emotionally draining and I have learned a long time ago that I can only handle them in small doses. Please PM if you want to talk about this or anything else!

Thank you so much. And right back at you! PM me if you ever want to talk about it. Today was my second therapy session and I loved it. I still have a lot of work to do, but thanks to you guys and my therapist, at least I know I'm headed in the right direction. I really appreciate the support

Of course anytime! I can't join your new company though, I'm not a badass ha.

drunkenwitch · December 2014

Glad the PM I sent you helped. Remember the mantra

[Deleted User] · December 2014

novella1186 · December 2014

pinkrevenge said:

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MagicInk said:

PrettyGirlLost said:

Feel free to have your texts and calls forwarded to my cell phone, and I'll be happy to respond to them on your behalf ;-)

I am thinking of starting a call center business that helps people deal with the BSC people in their lives.

I would totally come work for you there.

We'd have booze in the break room right? I can tell people off really well when fueled by alcohol.

It'd be part of the job requirement to be at least a sheet-and-a-half blowing in the wind when you deal with these MFs.

I want in on this. After the rescue harassment, I feel like I could take on anyone. Go for it.

I feel like I could be so good at this job as long as you don't make me talk to my own mother. I once got in a huge fight with my dad which came to an abrupt end when I yelled "I did you a favor [by doing the thing I did that he didn't like] so you can say 'thank you' or you can shut the fuck up!" He just smiled and nodded and then walked away.

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kmbay84 · December 2014

I don't have any tattoos either.

I do have a necklace with a sword on it. Or I could draw a rattlesnake on myself.

Fuming right now.

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