So I am kind of freaking out a little...TMI

KatWAG · December 2014

I am so sorry. But we are here for any kind of update. the good, bad and ugly.

levioosa · December 2014

I'm so sorry. I'm sending you a virtual chocolate bar, hot water bottle, and hugs.

jdluvr06 · December 2014

I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))

wandajune6 · December 2014

I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs

sarawifenow · December 2014

So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

chibiyui · December 2014

sarawifenow said:
So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

Hugs

I'm sorry, that sucks.

mrsdee15 · December 2014

I'm so sorry to hear this

Virtual hugs and wine/chocolate/mac and cheese.

holyguacamole79 · December 2014

You've been on my heart all day, Sara. I'm glad you were able to see your doctor. I hope you have a better, restful weekend.

Blergbot · December 2014

sarawifenow said:

So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

From books and whatnot, what I understand is that these happen quite often and it usually means the pregnancy wasn't viable. Meaning the egg didn't split correctly or some sort of chromosomal abnormality. What that means is that you didn't do anything to cause this, just that these things happen every so often. And it happening once doesn't mean it will happen again. So don't stress about your babymaker or anything. Do give yourself time to be bummed (or more than bummed). It's so great to hear that your H is being so supportive! And hugs.

holyguacamole79 · December 2014

Blergbot said:

sarawifenow said:

So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

From books and whatnot, what I understand is that these happen quite often and it usually means the pregnancy wasn't viable. Meaning the egg didn't split correctly or some sort of chromosomal abnormality. What that means is that you didn't do anything to cause this, just that these things happen every so often. And it happening once doesn't mean it will happen again. So don't stress about your babymaker or anything. Do give yourself time to be bummed (or more than bummed). It's so great to hear that your H is being so supportive! And hugs.

also (I'm totally not a doctor, btw) ask your doctor about your progesterone levels. I know several women who have had to had progesterone supplements during the pregnancy.

jdluvr06 · December 2014

I am so sorry to hear that. (((Hugs)))

larrygaga · December 2014

Blergbot said:

sarawifenow said:

So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

From books and whatnot, what I understand is that these happen quite often and it usually means the pregnancy wasn't viable. Meaning the egg didn't split correctly or some sort of chromosomal abnormality. What that means is that you didn't do anything to cause this, just that these things happen every so often. And it happening once doesn't mean it will happen again. So don't stress about your babymaker or anything. Do give yourself time to be bummed (or more than bummed). It's so great to hear that your H is being so supportive! And hugs.

I was going to post something like this!!! Don't get too down just yet!

theartistformerlyknownas · December 2014

sarawifenow said:

So I just got back from the Dr. They did some tests and examined and what not and they said that it is very likely that I had an early pregnancy miscarriage. Good news is that I can get pregnant, bad news is they don't know why it didn't happen. The doc said that we can try again in a few months and that if it keeps happening then we will have to look into other reasons why it could happen. Sigh. Super bummed.

H is giving me so much support and is really proving that I married the best guy in the world. It's a somber day in the <mylastname> household.

I wondered if that might have been the case. It is SUPER common - they say a lot of women have them and don't even know; they just think it's a really bad period. No reason to worry that there's anything wrong with you because of one. I know that doesn't make it any easier though.

((HUGS)) my dear. I'm glad you have such an awesome husband by your side. Know you have the whole internet there for you too.

wrigleyville · December 2014

Lolo's right. My doctor told me those are much more common than people realize because many women just assume they're having a heavy period (if the miscarriage occurs in line with their anticipated period date).

I'm really sorry this happened to you.

I'm glad you're okay, physically, and that you can try again soon. I hope everything goes okay next time (and the time after that, if you're having more than one).

JaniV123 · December 2014

@sarawifenow

early pregnancy miscarriages are super common. Do not get yourself worried about that yet. Just relax, enjoy this time with your wonderful H, who sounds like a sweetie, and move together through this at your own pace.

I would get the progesterone test if you are too worried about it, to ease your mind. But Everything will be ok. I am so sorry for everything. <hugs>

Kahlyla · December 2014

So sorry for your loss, Sara.

FiancB · December 2014

I'm sorry Sara. Like others said, this doesn't mean something's wrong with you. Lots of women have a miscarriage like this and the next time around get and stay pregnant without issue. Or like my sister have healthy pregnancies with progesterone.

Lots of hugs.

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