I decided to have my twin sister as my Matron of Honor and my other best friend as my Maid of Honor. I'm extremely close with both of them and they'll have two different titles, and after doing some searching on these boards, I felt that it was an acceptable thing to do. I love them both so much, why should they both get special titles? Well, my sister is extremely hurt. She hasn't talked to me in almost a month. I told her she would still be the one closest to me and the one who gives the speech, but she thinks it's ridiculous I'm having two.
She is also getting married 4 months before me and I am her one and only MOH. I didn't mean to hurt her by having a 2nd, but it's my day and I want them both to be MOHs. I think it's weird she's so hurt, it's not like she's just a bridesmaid. I saw some older posts that people have been in similar situations. What can I do for damage control? My parents are stuck in the middle, and her not talking to me is putting a negative damper on both of our happy wedding planning!