When My fiance and i got engaged. I was so excited about planning the wedding. Within two weeks I found out at least 3 of my friends would be devastated if they were not asked to by bridesmaid. The problem is
1. Guest will be 120-150
2. Fiance only has 3 people include the best man on his side
3. i'm going to have a total of 8 after my close friends, my sister and his sister
At first he was okay with having an uneven number but now he thinks it's crazy. I've never ever heard of girls WANTING to be bridesmaids. I'm not entirely sure what to do. How can i make sure the other 5 girls would not have their feelings hurt? I toyed with the idea of "honorary bridemaids" or "bridal attendant" but I don't want them to down play their relationship either.