It seems for a lot of ladies here it was important that your FI/DH asked your parents before hand. So I was curious as to why?
For me, I had always told FI I did not like that BS because I was an adult woman and I was not a possession/object to be asked for. So he didn't ask. When we went to tell my mom she was ticked off that he didnt ask her for permission and I explained to her that I had asked him not to do that since I felt strongly about it.
So am I alone in this?