WTF, SO?

levioosa · January 2015

Okay, so let me preface this by saying that SO is a clean, hygienic guy.

The other day we went on a trip and I forgot my toothbrush. "No biggie, use mine," he says. I told him hell to the no. You don't use someone else's toothbrush! So disgusting! He didn't seem to see why it was so gross, and ever since he'll bring it up in conversation randomly. I actually think he might be a little butt hurt that I won't share with him. It makes zero sense, because 1) I already explained my reasoning behind it, and 2) he is normally not a guy who gets butt hurt.

Fool, we eat, drink, and sleep together. We do not need to share a toothbrush too.

What are some WTF things that your SOs/FIs do or say?

climbingsingle · January 2015

We're the gross weirdos, because we will totally share a toothbrush. We don't do it on purpose, but have if one of us has forgotten it.

cupcait927 · January 2015

Ewwwwwww sharing a toothbrush is the absolute worst. H has accidentally used mine a couple of times and I always promptly chuck it and grab a new one.

mikenberger · January 2015

We totally share a toothbrush. I mean, we share our fair share of bodily stuff lol a toothbrush isn't going to save our modesty.

But I can understand it. I already share my vagina, my bed, my food with you... WHY MUST I SHARE MY TOOTHBRUSH!?

Maggie0829 · January 2015

H and I don't even share a bathroom so there is no way in hell we would share a toothbrush. No, just no.

pinkcow13 · January 2015

EWWW! Idk that just grosses me out. I accidentally used FI's a couple of times and gagged midway through brushing when I figured it out. He doesn't care as much because he didn't chuck his.

I can't think of any. Usually I'm the one with the WTF moments lol.

lovegood90 · January 2015

That grosses me out too! BF doesn't understand why either!

Something he does that grosses me out, he will walk around and floss his teeth so that all the...stuff in his teeth is just flinging about. I'll be sitting on the couch in the living room and he'll just be next to me, flossing away, flicking stuff everywhere. SO GROSS. Just go to the friggin bathroom!

levioosa · January 2015

lovegood90 said:

That grosses me out too! BF doesn't understand why either!
Something he does that grosses me out, he will walk around and floss his teeth so that all the...stuff in his teeth is just flinging about. I'll be sitting on the couch in the living room and he'll just be next to me, flossing away, flicking stuff everywhere. SO GROSS. Just go to the friggin bathroom!

Oh god, no! SO has a waterpik, so he literally has to stay in the bathroom for that.

lovemesomemonster · January 2015

No on the toothbrush thing.. I feel like it's kind of along the same lines as sharing floss?

WTF that FI did: He works out of state most of the year, his drive home is about 13hrs and he only does it a couple times.. the last time he did the drive before the big one home, he rolls in super early (usually he just stops for a few hours to sleep in the truck so this is typical) pulls his work boots off and he's wearing his gold toe dress socks.. I ask him why and he says "Oh, I've been wearing these for 3 days, I ran out of socks"... WHAT!? NO no no no.. LAUNDRY PLEASE.. The kicker is he's usually the one that does the laundry and is yelling at ME if I leave anything around.. so this lapse of hygiene was a WFT.. (yep, he hadn't showered in 3 days either)

cupcait927 · January 2015

lovegood90 said:

That grosses me out too! BF doesn't understand why either!
Something he does that grosses me out, he will walk around and floss his teeth so that all the...stuff in his teeth is just flinging about. I'll be sitting on the couch in the living room and he'll just be next to me, flossing away, flicking stuff everywhere. SO GROSS. Just go to the friggin bathroom!

Ugh gag. That shit would not fly in my house. H used to clip his toenails in the living room while he was watching tv and I finally got so grossed out that I asked if he would please please please only do that in his bathroom upstairs.

lyndausvi · January 2015

climbingwife said:

We're the gross weirdos, because we will totally share a toothbrush. We don't do it on purpose, but have if one of us has forgotten it.

We have too. I think only once or twice since we have been together, but yeah in an emergency I didn't mind at the time.

Although now I keep an extra toothbrush for DH in my travel bag. It also has a travel toothbrush for myself. Now we never forget to pack them since it's always in the travel bag.

beachyone15 · January 2015

I have one. My H thinks it's weird that I make him clip his toenails in the bathroom. I mean really, you think I'm gonna let you do that in the kitchen or sitting on the couch in the living room?! Sometimes he'll go out on our balcony to do it (which I think is to spite me, but whatever dude, at least you're outside)!

lovemesomemonster · January 2015

beachyone15 said:

I have one. My H thinks it's weird that I make him clip his toenails in the bathroom. I mean really, you think I'm gonna let you do that in the kitchen or sitting on the couch in the living room?! Sometimes he'll go out on our balcony to do it (which I think is to spite me, but whatever dude, at least you're outside)!

This seems to be a common theme! I have toenail issues as well.. we are working on them..

NowIAmSyp · January 2015

Omg, gag, no. LOL.

FI thinks it's weird that I won't share his spoon when eating ice cream- or lick the ice cream cone after he has. Can't do it- nope.

levioosa · January 2015

Up until a few years ago I wouldn't share food with anyone. SO should just count himself lucky that I'm willing to share my mac 'n cheese with him now.

lyndausvi · January 2015

Now I've always clipped my nails in the bathroom. But DH makes me cut them when he is not at home or he is in another room with the TV on loud. The mere sound of a nail clipper freaks him out.

flyingfoxes · January 2015

NONONO on sharing a toothbrush. Gag.

LabLove86 · January 2015

NOPE.

I mean - dental hygienist here - so . . . . I guess that shouldn't shock anyone. But NOPE.

I am also skeeved out by sharing razors. Pretty much anything else I'm ok with.

maeday2 · January 2015

I get that we share so much other "stuff," but I wouldn't be able to handle toothbrush sharing.

What if he had onions for dinner? Blehhh

FiancB · January 2015

I HATE sharing a toothbrush but we have done it out of desperation. It makes my skin crawl though. Definitely a last resort. Why the hell is it so easy to forget to bring a toothbrush anyway?

Not gross, but DH keeps putting things in the fridge that shouldn't be in there. Like homemade biscuits (ew they get all stale and weird) and PEANUT BUTTER.

buttercup1958 · January 2015

V and I have shared a lot of stuff. I'm trying to think of a WTF moment, but I can't think of any. V would be able to come up with some for me though haha. I think he had a WTF moment when I used a tee-shirt as a towel for my hair. I read it was better for curly hair and so fair it seems to be working!

lovemesomemonster · January 2015

buttercup1958 said:

V and I have shared a lot of stuff. I'm trying to think of a WTF moment, but I can't think of any. V would be able to come up with some for me though haha. I think he had a WTF moment when I used a tee-shirt as a towel for my hair. I read it was better for curly hair and so fair it seems to be working!

It really does work? I might have to try that! Oh the things you learn on here!

maeday2 · January 2015

lovemesomemonster said:

buttercup1958 said:

V and I have shared a lot of stuff. I'm trying to think of a WTF moment, but I can't think of any. V would be able to come up with some for me though haha. I think he had a WTF moment when I used a tee-shirt as a towel for my hair. I read it was better for curly hair and so fair it seems to be working!

It really does work? I might have to try that! Oh the things you learn on here!

I'll second this. I have naturally curly hair and if I use a towel to dry it and plan to wear it curly...big mess of NOPE on my head. I'll use the shirt I slept in usually. Keeps the frizz away.

[Deleted User] · January 2015

FiancB said:

I HATE sharing a toothbrush but we have done it out of desperation. It makes my skin crawl though. Definitely a last resort. Why the hell is it so easy to forget to bring a toothbrush anyway?

Not gross, but DH keeps putting things in the fridge that shouldn't be in there. Like homemade biscuits (ew they get all stale and weird) and PEANUT BUTTER.

Growing up, we always kept our in a cupboard, but now, once the jar is open, I store it in the fridge and take it out a few hours before I'm going to use it so it's easier to spread.

Oils can go rancid pretty quickly (PB is usually good for about 2-3 months out of the fridge and opened) so storing them in the fridge can pro-long the life of the food.

levioosa · January 2015

FiancB said:

I HATE sharing a toothbrush but we have done it out of desperation. It makes my skin crawl though. Definitely a last resort. Why the hell is it so easy to forget to bring a toothbrush anyway?

Not gross, but DH keeps putting things in the fridge that shouldn't be in there. Like homemade biscuits (ew they get all stale and weird) and PEANUT BUTTER.

SO puts the olive oil in the fridge. I know it's because his Mom is a terrible cook and he never leaned that he shouldn't, but it's driving me crazy that after two years I'll still find the olive oil in the fridge. STAHP IT.

buttercup1958 · January 2015

lovemesomemonster It does! I was really surprised when my hair stopped becoming so frizzy. Plus its a lot easier on the neck haha. I'm going to try out more tricks that the blog I read suggested. I can link it to you if you want!

maeday2 I know, I should have start using a tee-shirt years ago. I use to fight with my hair all the time. Now I love my hair! I actually got so desperate with the frizz that I started using Japanese straighten. My hair is finally starting to recover from those.

lovemesomemonster · January 2015

@buttercup1958 please do keep me updated on things that are working! I have waist length curly hair and most of the time it ends up in a pile of poof on top of my head instead of bothering with it.. so bad.. I will start with the tee-shirt!

buttercup1958 · January 2015

@lovemesomemonster Of course! I'm planning on getting some of the stuff sometime today. I have bob length hair so we may have to use different amounts but my hair does get the poof affect! When I was younger kids use to call me annie..

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JCbride2015 · January 2015

Fi has this amazing ability to completely look past clutter. He'll tell me the apartment is clean and I'll get home and there's a trail of his work clothes on the floor, some of my shit lying around like extra handbags, the recycling needs to be taken out, and the cat box has not been scooped yet today. NO! This is not clean! We just have very different definitions of "clean."

The main thing he does though that drives me nuts, is he'll start doing something helpful and then leave a mess behind him. He starts to iron clothes, but he leaves out the ironing board with the cord trailing across the room. He vacuums the living room, but leaves the vacuum out... with the cord trailing across the room. He does laundry, but leaves the folded clothes on the couch. I try to be patient because he's helping.... but seriously dude? Put the damn vacuum away!

lovegood90 · January 2015

JCbride2015 said:

Fi has this amazing ability to completely look past clutter. He'll tell me the apartment is clean and I'll get home and there's a trail of his work clothes on the floor, some of my shit lying around like extra handbags, the recycling needs to be taken out, and the cat box has not been scooped yet today. NO! This is not clean! We just have very different definitions of "clean."

The main thing he does though that drives me nuts, is he'll start doing something helpful and then leave a mess behind him. He starts to iron clothes, but he leaves out the ironing board with the cord trailing across the room. He vacuums the living room, but leaves the vacuum out... with the cord trailing across the room. He does laundry, but leaves the folded clothes on the couch. I try to be patient because he's helping.... but seriously dude? Put the damn vacuum away!

OMG. I think I'm dating your Fi's twin!

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