I am having a brunch wedding in August from 1130-4PM. Our guests range in age from 25years old-65 years old. My fiancé and I are pretty reserved people, we don't like attention on us and arent big partiers. We plan to have an iPod set up, and our venue has an AV guy who will play the music at appropriate times, but if we need any announcements made, we need to take care of that ourselves. we don't plan to do wedding party announcements, first dances etc. we want our wedding to be more of a social mingling event and not a huge party, however I know that most people love the party scene of a wedding and would probably leave early without us having a DJ. I want the wedding to be a great time without being TOO crazy, I'm just afraid that without a DJ people will sit there bored out of their minds. Opinions?