Okay, so personal thing here and MAYBEEEE some people have had similar situation and can tell me how they got through!
My dad passed away suddenly in April 2014. I am getting married August 2015.
Yes I am having a hard time with some things because the constant plan was he was suppose to help me find my dress, walk me down the aisle and father-daughter dance. This was always the plan and I already do not like change.
So people keep asking me what I'm changing to alter this.
Not only that, people keep asking me how I'm doing with planning a wedding without him.
Am I allowed to yell at people?
I am not bride-zilla at all, and I don't like confrontation. Nor am I vastly stressed out over the wedding. A few months ago when my friend/bridesmaid asked how it was going with that, I started crying in the mall.
Same friend asked me recently, and I said "it's hard but I like what i'm doing as a change." and swiftly changed the subject.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who is trying to deal with this or has dealt with it .... help!?
Re: People Needs To Stop Asking This!
Sorry about your Dad. Not sure about the random people bringing this up to you but as for your friend/bridesmaid, I would try and focus on the first part: she is your friend. She is trying. I would shoot her a text or email when you're feeling non-confrontational (not like...an hour after she brings it up) and just explain that you don't want to talk about, especially not in public; you appreciate that she's trying and if you need to talk you know she's there.
If I got a text like that I would feel bad I upset you, but not defensive or anything.