So my brother's girlfriend, who is super-outgoing and one of the sweetest people in the world, is insisting on throwing me a bachelorette party. I could not say no. But I'm really struggling to figure out what names to give her for invitations. I'm an older bride (37) and I'm really a quiet home-body. My sister and close friends are not local, and I doubt they'd be able to travel for the party as well as the wedding. I do not have any bridesmaids, in part because of these reasons and because I wanted to keep the wedding simple. The only people who are local are my brother's girlfriend (the hostess), and my cousin's wife. I have two local friends I can think of but we were never really that close and I honestly haven't hung out with them in ages. I can kind of imagine just hanging out with my brother's GF and my cousin's wife and having a fun girl's night out, but that seems sort of lame?
Anyone else go through this? I guess I have this sort of idea in my mind of a bachelorette party being a wild crazy outing with a tight group of girlfriends. If anyone had a smaller, low-key party could you please share details with me? I'm feeling weird and self-conscious...