Ok, so last night, BF and I were invited to his best friend and gf's apartment for dinner. It was kind of odd, because they are pretty distant, we don't hang out much. They don't have FB, so it's hard to keep in touch, too, and they are kind of flaky w/ plans. Anyway, they invited us over, and when we got there, they told us that they got married, but were keeping it a secret from everyone. Then they told us that they eloped in AUGUST. They started dating the same time me and BF did- last APRIL. So, they eloped after 4 months!!! They met in spring 2013, but they didn't talk again until April 2014, when they started dating.
BF and I are in shock! The couple said they weren't planning on anyone at all, because they wanted their marriage to be "their thing" and the only reason they are telling anyone is because the girl's dad found out last weekend. Now the guy's mom and sister are wanting to plan this huge wedding for them.
I had to post because BF is really upset about it. Him and the guy have been friends for almost 15 years. Even though they have drifted apart a little bit lately, they still chat via text or over video games every so often. BF feels like the guy completely shut him out, and he is really, really upset. I told him to just say so, and try to clear the air so his feelings don't get more and more hurt (from him bottling it up). ALSO, BF doesn't like the girl the guy married. She is kind of stuck-up and bossy towards the guy, and she seems to be a mooch (she only works part time, makes barely any money, and refuses to look for a better job). BF thinks the guy doesn't notice because, obviously, they are in love with each other, so he may have blinders on.
Your opinion on this? Should my BF talk to him about it, or just let it go?