So my husband and I have been been married 7 yrs but we initially got married at the court house. He was incarcerated and i married him but he was not there (if that makes any sense). we have a legal marriage and his step father stood in for him so we are legally married. Yep crazy, very crazy! So i dont know if this is a vow renewal or a wedding. I know its not a second wedding but i dont know how to start planning this thing. this is our first wedding and its actually the first time we said our vows to each other. pls help me. Im thinking this is more of a vow renewal....