I have a relatively small bridal party. My sister is my MOH, and two of my cousins are bridesmaids. One of my cousins is still in college, and I'm trying to be understanding in that she's not as mature as my sister and other cousin. (Note: I live down south, while my entire bridal party lives up north.)
When I flew home for Christmas in December, I took all three of them dress shopping. I invited my aunt (my college-aged cousin's mom), as I knew she'd be paying for the dress. We went to two stores, and everyone found something they loved in their budget. The second store was even willing to price-match, so long as the price was from an authorized retailer. All of the dresses were cheaper on Bridesmaids.com, which is an authorized retailer (it's the website for a salon in Manhattan). Anyway, I did all of the legwork so that if the girls wanted to save even more on their dresses, they could. Everyone agreed the dresses would be ordered within the next month.
Fast-forward to now, which is almost two months after we went dress shopping. My sister and older cousin have been super easy to work with. Both have ordered their dresses. My younger cousin? Good question. I can't seem to get ahold of her or her mom. I sent them both a text last week and it was ignored. I sent them another text following up today and still no word. I can't help but roll my eyes because both of them have been on Instagram multiple times since.
I guess the reason I'm compelled to vent has to do with a comment my aunt made to my mom recently. Before I get to that comment, I should explain what's been going on in my personal life for the last six months. Back in September, my FI's mother was diagnosed with incurable cancer. She was admitted into the hospital and within a few days had a heart attack. It's been an emotional rollercoaster to say the least. FI's parents live about five hours away, and we've probably spent more weekends trucking back and forth than we've had in our own home. Between that, work, planning a wedding, and two puppies under the age of two, it hasn't been easy. So, back to my aunt's comment... The first store we went to happened to be the place I bought my dress, and my aunt thought it'd be helpful if I could call to see if they'd price-match too. Wait...what? First of all, they won't price-match, which is something I told her. But if she really wants to try again, I know my cousin is in college and all, but I think she's more than capable of picking up the phone and calling herself.
At this point, I'd just really like the dress to be ordered in the next week. My FI's mom goes in for a stem cell transplant at the end of March, and I'm not going to have time to be chasing people around.