So there is a small back story to this. My fiance and I were suppose to get married at the end of May 2014, but problems arose and we had to cancel, so we've set the date again for September 2015. I asked 5 friends to be bridesmaids for the May wedding, but we're trying to keep things smaller for the September wedding as having a smaller budget, I want to ask one of the bridesmaids who is very good at photography and whom I haven't been able to see in awhile to be a photographer for the bridal party at the September wedding. (Note: I did not ask her to be a bridesmaid at the September wedding) I don't want to upset her, but she is a very talented photographer and I don't have the budget to hire two professional photographers (I need two because the bridal party and the grooms party will take separate party pics before the wedding, to save on time for the guests waiting to eat after the ceremony). The one bridesmaid whom I've confided this information in has assured me that the other bridesmaid would surly understand and take pictures for the wedding, but I really really don't want to hurt my friends feelings. It's not like she wouldn't be apart of the bridal party, she would be there with us every step of the way. If she wants to wear a bridesmaids dress I wouldn't be against it because she is still apart of my bridal party, she just wouldn't be walking down the aisle before me, she would be taking pictures of me walking down the aisle. How do I go about talking to her about this? I'm so scared I'm going to upset her (I've also been told I am over thinking this because I live with high anxiety). Any advice/thoughts?