Hi Ladies, I've mostly been a lurker but I need some advice/reality check from you wise gals.
Next month my SO and I will have been together for 8 years, we've been living together for 2 1/2 years and have a 2 year old son together. I am more than ready for us to take the next step and plan to get married. We have discussed it and it just doesn't seem to be on his radar. He doesn't understand why it's important to me for us to get married. How can I explain to him that it's not something that I'm willing to not do without giving him an ultimatum? .
I feel like Jennifer Aniston in "He's Just not that Into you". She leaves her guy because he doesn't want to get married and then she realizes that being with him is more important than being married and he ends up proposing anyway.
So am I just being crazy, do I need to be patient and hold out for when he's ready? I don't even know what a reasonable timeline is anymore since we've been together for 8yrs already.