My niece is getting married this summer and just found out that one of her bridesmaids was trying, and was successful, in starting a family nine months before the wedding date. Her bridesmaid's due date is close to the wedding date, and my niece is torn between feeling happy for her friend but also let down that she has to worry whether her friend will go into labor on her wedding day or be so late in her pregnancy that she won't want to participate. Obviously no one needs to ask the bride when they can start their family but is she wrong to feel let down by her friend? I should add that when colors were picked and dresses selected her friend knew she was pregnant but didn't tell my niece.