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KatieinBkln · April 2015

I...I don't like any of this.

FiancB · April 2015

Nice version: your H sounds very sweet. Glad the two of you have been able to lean on each other.

Not so nice/what I'm really thinking version:

Make friends with your enter or return key.

NowIamMrsKlein · April 2015

mrsdee15 · April 2015

I'm a little late to this party, but literally you named this thread is "How I married my Hubby." Your elopement was your wedding, and you obviously know you're already married so you don't need an "actual" ceremony after your elopement. Congratulations on your marriage!

madamerwin · April 2015

What the hell is this shit? I don't get the point of your little story. Clearly you have not been on TK very long, or else you would know what kind of reaction you'd get from this incredibly tortuous (AND torturous) post.

I tried to read the entire thing, but failed three times. I would have missed the whole PPD part had @paperpusher not pointed it out.

ETA: Just read your other post. Now I am convinced you are 14 years old.

FiancB · April 2015

Uh oh, the thread titles and bodies turned into nipples. Now it's getting serious.

Cookie Pusher · April 2015

Guess it's puppy gif time!

climbingsingle · April 2015

This stupid period is very hard to click on while on mobile. Thanks.

Biogirl2010 · April 2015

Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.

DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

VulgarGirl · April 2015

Hey! There's a military brides board! You should go post this shit there.

That'll go over like gang busters. Please. Post there. And let us know as soon as you do.

Oh yeah also, those who think it's just a piece of paper have never been denied the right to have one.

esstee33 · April 2015

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

Hey guess what?

You can save yourself all this totally unnecessary stress by not having a second, fake wedding! Because, get this: YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED!!!!!

Don't even try using the military as an excuse. Lots and lots and lots of people in the military get married all the time without doing the shady shit you're doing.

huskypuppy14 · April 2015

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

Biogirl2010 · April 2015

@esstee33 I am aware that plenty of couples do it the usual way. I am also aware of many who do it this way. We had a whole wedding planned to do things the traditional way and low and behold military things got in the way. This was what we had to do after all of those arrangements had been made. You can bash and argue all you want you have your point and I have mine. Have a good one.

huskypuppy14 · April 2015

Biogirl2010 said:
@esstee33 I am aware that plenty of couples do it the usual way. I am also aware of many who do it this way. We had a whole wedding planned to do things the traditional way and low and behold military things got in the way. This was what we had to do after all of those arrangements had been made. You can bash and argue all you want you have your point and I have mine. Have a good one.

Look, shit happens, and plans have to be changed. No one said you can't have a party. Have a great party, everyone loves parties. But it's not a wedding. You calling it a wedding does not make it true.

esstee33 · April 2015

Biogirl2010 said:
@esstee33 I am aware that plenty of couples do it the usual way. I am also aware of many who do it this way. We had a whole wedding planned to do things the traditional way and low and behold military things got in the way. This was what we had to do after all of those arrangements had been made. You can bash and argue all you want you have your point and I have mine. Have a good one.

Your point is absurd. Shit happens and sometimes plans don't go the way you wanted them to. After that, you put on your big girl panties, deal with the shit life throws at you, and move on with your fucking life like an adult. You don't act like your actual wedding, at the courthouse where you signed the papers you're acting so flippant about, wasn't good enough and you have to plan a fake wedding to make up for it. Your attitude is so gross.

VulgarGirl · April 2015

Let talk about my fathers in law. My wife's two dads.

They got together 20 years ago. 1995. That was a different time. DOES was a thing. Gay marriage was an unheard of concept. My word Ellen was not even out yet. ELLEN. Imagine that world.

Five years into their relationship my wife's dad was in a bad car accident. At the time he'd just lost his job and had no health insurance. This was 2000. No gay marriage rights existed. Bush the second was in office. They couldn't even get domestic partner benefits.

So while this man laid in a hospital bed racking up bills he couldn't pay his partner of 5 years sat in the hallway alone. Because they didn't have the luxury of having a quicky wedding because shit hit the fan. They didn't have the rights you're taking for granted.

And let's talk about military spouses. Let talk about my friend Joan who has proudly served her country for 12 years. And let's talk about her partner of 7 years. Who was a military spouse without any benefits. Not even the right to be open about their relationship. And even with all the changes they have still had to fight for rights you cheerfully take for granted.

But no. You totes deserve a big white wedding to fulfill all of your little girl fantasies.

flbride2015 · April 2015

esstee33 said:

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

Hey guess what?

You can save yourself all this totally unnecessary stress by not having a second, fake wedding! Because, get this: YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED!!!!!

Don't even try using the military as an excuse. Lots and lots and lots of people in the military get married all the time without doing the shady shit you're doing.

Yup, I won't repeat my story here since I already commented on OP's other post, but not everyone in the military does it that way. Some of us are adults and we make adult decisions. Like choosing not to get maried for the benefits, or owning up to the decision to elope for convenience.

Because that's what you (OP) did, you eloped for convenience and benefits. You CHOSE to take the easy way, which means you CHOSE not to have the wedding you wanted. You could have moved on your own to be with your husband or continued to have a long distance relationship if you had wanted to have a big ceremony. It was a CHOICE you made.

PrettyGirlLost · April 2015

climbingwife said:
This stupid period is very hard to click on while on mobile. Thanks.

I managed to click on it the 1st time!!!! That has never, ever happened before!!! Do I win?

drunkenwitch · April 2015

Get back here and entertainment me you precious unique snowflake!

TrixieJess · April 2015

Can someone please put up a Bat signal GIF? I feel that is missing and I'm on a mobile.

theartistformerlyknownas · April 2015

TrixieJess said:
Can someone please put up a Bat signal GIF? I feel that is missing and I'm on a mobile.

I've got you @trixiejess

lurkergirl · April 2015

TrixieJess · April 2015

lolo883 said:

TrixieJess said:
Can someone please put up a Bat signal GIF? I feel that is missing and I'm on a mobile.
I've got you @trixiejess

Thanks!!!

littlepep · April 2015

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

JennyColada · April 2015

You know what else people do OP?

Shave their heads, get tattoos on their faces, ritual sacrifice, scarification.

All good ideas yes? You should do them all! Clearly something being popular means that it is a great idea!

flantastic · April 2015

littlepep said:

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

The things that people think qualify as "struggles" and that exempt them from decent behavior...

MGP · April 2015

Been waiting a while to use this one. Thanks OP!

madamerwin · April 2015

MGP said:
Been waiting a while to use this one. Thanks OP!

I'm going to have to save this one.

littlepep · April 2015

flantastic said:

littlepep said:

Biogirl2010 said:
Both of these posts have been edited away. Thank you to the few who were actually civil. I had made both posts while unable to sleep over the stress this is causing. For the record I am 20. The posts were not well written or paragraphed because well it was four o clock in the damn morning and I just typed all the crazy emotions I was feeling while DH was yet again gone for work.
DH is military, and for those of you who don't know the life it has become common to legally marry and then plan the wedding later. (Seriously...you try planning around deployments, tdys, and all of the other bs the military will throw at you while still living apart.) Not to say that it is that way for everyone, but for some it is. You do not know the struggles everybody has, so keep that in mind when you tear people down.

The things that people think qualify as "struggles" and that exempt them from decent behavior...

Honestly. There are much bigger life problems than not getting to wear a fucking poofy white dress in front of all your family and friends.

MGP · April 2015

tfmrserwin said:

MGP said:
Been waiting a while to use this one. Thanks OP!
I'm going to have to save this one.

If I knew how to make memes I would, because my follow up to this one would be:

"Whenever I look at some people I think to myself: There's someone out there that wants to marry that?"

Yes, I am a horrible, no good, terrible, judgmental bitch.

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